HOW TO KNOW SHE IS MATURED - TO THE GUYS


Sup, Guys.

Hope you enjoyed yesterday's post! I saw some of your messages. Thanks for the encouragement! However, I promised to give you tips to knowing if your 'girl' is matured. Whether you are just starting off in the relationship or you have gone as far as seeing marriage from a distance, you should be able to tell if she is matured.

1. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE GIVES YOU MATURED ADVICE

Yes, she has to be matured in her thinking. When you listen to some girls give advice, you be like 'REALLY?'. There are so many things that will come up and you will tell her about it and will need her advice concerning the matter. She should be able to think straight up and give you the right advice. If she doesn't give matured advice, she is not matured.

2. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE HANDLES SITUATIONS MATURELY

There are always ups and downs in every relationship. In other to survive the tide, you will need an additional matured head to join in handling situations the right way. She is not matured if she is a cry baby who cries at the slightest things and waits for you to console her. Don't call that attitude 'cute'. It is an attitude of a child. She should be able to handle situations in the right way with the aim of saving the relationship.

3. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE RELATES WELL WITH YOUR FRIENDS

Some of you are wondering why her relationship with your friends matter. Well, it matters 100%. She is not matured if she keeps telling you she hates all your friends. She is not matured if she is rude to all your friends. She is not matured if she gossips about you to your own friends. Some girls actually do that. She should be able to contribute sensibly to matters if you or your friends ask her to.

4. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE CHALLENGES YOU

She has to be able to challenge you not negatively but positively. There are some ladies that do not add anything meaningful to the life of their guys and they don't challenge them to be better and greater. In challenging you, she doesn't have to make you feel bad or call you incompetent but instead, she should challenge you in a way that you will begin to reason the right way and pay attention to things that would take you up.

5. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE IS NOT HER PARENT'S DOLL

Some girls are actually their parents doll - mommy or daddy's pet. They would report you to their parents. They cannot take decisions except their parents give them a go ahead. She is not matured if she cannot be independent of her parents. She is the kind of girl that whose parents would cause double wahala when you marry. You will have in - law headache.

6. SHE IS MATURED IF SHE BELIEVES IN YOU

Believing in you is ultimate. You cannot be in a relationship with someone who doesn't believe in you. If she always tries to give up at the smallest things, she is not matured. But if she believes in you and constantly reminds you of that, she is matured and such a lady is a big time wife material.

There are other points but these six points are important ways of knowing if she is matured.

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