RELATIONSHIP TALK - HOW TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS THE RIGHT PERSON


Relationship to matured people indicates a straight path to marriage. No matured person wants to enter into a relationship for the fun of it. Many people might have done it a tender age but when they get to their early 20s and late 20s, they start getting serious with their relationships in order to enter into marriage. However, people enter into wrong relationships and eventually enter into the wrong marriage and they are doomed for life because the Bible frowns at divorce. Such a person would have to bear that cross for life! How despairing! Marriage is no child's play. Its not for boys and girls but for men and women who are not just matured in age but matured in mind. Tomorrow, I will upload a post on how to know if you are matured for marriage. But before then, how do you know that the person you are with is the right person for you?

1. SEEK GOD'S COUNSEL

The Bible says in the last days, false prophets would arise. So, going around to meet pastors to confirm you is no longer tenable. You need the Holy Spirit to help you elope from the confusion of this end - time world. You need to pray concerning your partner. If you feel the urge, you may fast about it. God would definitely reveal to you either by speaking to you in clear words or via dreams or via visions or he will confirm it through various people but it is important to be sure that every of your confirmation is from God because the devil can manipulate his ways into your hearts. Release your mind and heart to hear from God because if your mind and heart has been clouded by love already, you might not get the right answer. So, empty your mind before God and be ready to hear the truth of the matter from the throne of Grace.

2. COMPATIBILITY

Every other key I would mention are very minor. Number one is the most important and is the overall. You might be compatible but yet, the person might not be the one. However, its still good to check for compatibility. To an extent, you should have a bit of co - incidental similarities. If you both have large differences, there is problem o. If he likes fufu and you like amala, you might have to sacrifice big time to make fufu many times. These are minor differences that might be over looked but when the difference is huge, it might be a red signal.

3. LOVE

Like I said, this is just a minor key. Your partner might love you but still, such a person might not be the one. However, love cannot be over looked. Your partner should have unconditional love for you and you have to be sure that the love is sincere because people dey change for this life o. Make the person no go change am for you after marriage. Prayer still comes in.

These are the three keys I can offer you that are trustworthy ...*winks*. Above all, prayer is the master key. Go down on your knees and ask God if your partner is really the one. If you have parents that are pastors, they can join you in prayers. If you attend a Bible believing Church and you know your pastor is a sincere man of God, please inform him so that he can join you in prayers!

Most importantly, make sure your partner is a good Christian. This is 100% important.

BIBLE VERSES TO THINK UPON

2Corinthians 6 vs. 14 - 16

“Do not be bound together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?”

Proverbs 12 vs. 14

“Find a wife of noble character, avoid a disgraceful wife.”

Proverbs 14 vs. 17

“Stay away from a foolish man, for you will not find knowledge on his lips.”

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