RELATIONSHIP TALK - WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR PARTNER BEGINS TO GET SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE TO YOU


There are different reasons accrued to different people for entering a relationship. A worldly relationship {a relationship between two non - Christians or two non - committed Christians} should obviously be different from a godly relationship {a relationship between two Christians}. But then, so many Christians tend to encounter a particular problem that could lead to sin. When the devil starts cooking up sexual images of you and your partner in your head, know that destruction might just be ahead. What then do you do?

1. AVOID DARK PLACES

Till you can deal with your mind or till you are married, simply avoid dark places with your partner. Avoid seeing each other late at night. Avoid seeing each other in secluded areas because you might be tempted to oblige to the dealings of the devil. You might be tempted to give your partner a quick kiss which could trigger him or her. Avoid being alone together!

2. AVOID SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE PICTURES OF YOUR PARTNER

Many people see nothing wrong in starring at the picture of their partner. Of course, there is nothing wrong but then, if you know you have a sexually attractive (otherwise known as sexy) picture of your partner, simply delete it. I often see partners in a relationship sending nude pictures of themselves to one another and I simply shake my head in sorrow. How can you send a nude picture of yourself to someone you are not married to? Do you know who else is checking his or her phone? Pictures were your girlfriend is wearing a short dress should be deleted or the one were he isn't wearing a shirt. This is to help you get rid of sexual thoughts of your partner.

3. AVOID DIRTY TALKS

I was in one of my friend's room one day and this friend of mine happened to be an executive in her church and then, I stumbled on her messages. I should have closed it immediately but then, I just felt like reading them which was very wrong on my part. However, I was shocked at what I read. Her boyfriend was telling her that he cannot wait to hold her breast and she concurred and said she cannot wait for him to ravish it too. However, that would be after they marry since they are Christians. Thank God they are waiting till they marry but why the dirty talk? That explains how dirty and corrupt their minds are towards each other. Avoid dirty talks with your partner. This could trigger sexual thoughts and create sexual images in your head which is a sin.

4. AVOID INDECENT DRESSING

You never can tell how your partner sees you or thinks about you but you can help them by avoiding indecent dressing when you are around them. Some girls love guys with hairy legs and that's one thing that can make them fall. So, avoid the knickers trending now so as to help the faith of ladies in that category. Don't wear short dresses or exposive clothes to see your boyfriend. Don't wear extremely body hugging vests that would make your 6 pacs or half pac obvious.

5. AVOID SEXUAL VIEWS

Avoid watching sexual scenes in movies. Throw away all those satanic romance novels that cant help your life or build you spiritually. Avoid pornography because many Christians are secretly watching it and suffering from addiction. May the great deliverer deliver you in Jesus Name! Avoid listening to sexual talks among your friends because all of these contribute to building up sexual images and thoughts in your mind.

6. ENGAGE YOUR MIND

You are having sexual thoughts of your partner because your mind is idle and the devil has decided to use it as his workshop. When such thoughts come up, pray against it and read your bible or go out with friends or do some home work or any engaging activity so that you can get rid of such thoughts.

If you don't do something about the sexual thoughts you are having about your partner, you would soon imagine yourself romancing him or her, kissing him or her and finally having sex with him or her. In fact, many Christians are already engaging their minds in these sinful activities and it leads to watching of pornography, masturbation, having a spirit wife or husband and finally, tempting your partner who might eventually fall and you would finally fornicate. You have control over your mind so resist the devil and he will flee!

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