Continuing form yesterday's discuss, let's take an eagle eye on the remaining things Pastor Adeboye said.
5. “If he tells you he is a contractor, ask him to show you evidence of all the contracts he has done because the contract he is talking about is you. He wants to live off you."


This is just like a follow - up on the previous advice he gave whereby he said it is pertinent a man has a job before marriage. The reason for the job is so that he can be fully capacitated for the business called marriage. Several bills will always come in and when kids start coming, the bills get higher. So while probing your partner, it has been noticed that some men are not clear cut concerning the kind of business they do.

They might be giving you money but that doesnt mean they have a job. Just as guys borrow cars and houses to borrow pose, they can easily borrow the money or still being spoon fed financially by their parents.

In essence, Daddy G.O adviced that you have to ask questions concerning the nature of his job. He gave contractor business as an example. And it could be very realistic to say that his contractor business could actually be you! Be wise!

6. “Don’t be a fool. If he hasn’t got a steady income, don’t marry him. A man is to provide for the house and not the other way round. If he has no income, he should not marry. Those who do not work should not eat. And if they can’t eat, they can’t even marry.”


This thought consolidates on the two previous thoughts. Having a job involves having a steady income. This is not to say that if your partner is jobless and proposes to you, you should say no. Thats not it. You could reply in the affirmative. However, you both can work hand in hand on getting him a job. Not just him, but yourself as well because the woman should be a helpmeet not a burden.

In essence, Pastor Adeboye is speaking against laziness on the part of men. A lazy man shouldnt be seen tying the not. He will put his family into garrison. Remember finance is one of the major reason for the collapse of many marriages. Marriage is not a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. So wisen up!

Tomorrow, we will discus the remaining 4 things he talked about. Have a blessed day! 

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